Trips and Tricks For Phone Dating
Knowing some tips and tricks to get you started will help you achieve a satisfying and rewarding phone chat experience.
- Make sure you are in a comfortable place where you are going to be able to speak openly and relax. The last thing you want to be when chatting is reserved. You shouldn’t feel like you have to be quiet (unless you want to) or restrained (unless that’s you thing). Get yourself in a comfortable place and wear something that makes you feel good. Alternatively, wear nothing at all. You can make the room you’re in nice by getting the lighting right and getting in a comfortable position. Whatever environment turns you on is the environment you should create.
- Let your partner know exactly what you’re looking for. If they don’t know what turns you on they won’t be able to give you the experience you desire. If you’re not sure that you are both on the same page, clarify for them what you are into. Sometimes it will be an operator who will direct you to the right date. Sometimes you will be speaking to the operator when planning the call. Either way be clear and get what you want. Worst case scenario is they find you someone who is more appropriate for fulfilling your fantasy.
- Move at the pace you are comfortable with. You should never feel rushed or self-conscious about the time you need. Work up to the experience and enjoy yourself. Remember, there is no “normal” or “correct” way to chat. Do your thing. It’s your time. If you’re unsure exactly how to move things along, tell your operator to guide you through it a bit. They are professionals and they know how to please you, so let them.
- Talk about something neutral and non-sexual to get things going if you’d like. A lot of people like talking about their days and just sharing themselves with the operators. The best part about phone chat is the intimacy involved, and you can build this intimacy by just trying to connect on a personal level. Remember, you do not need to give any personal information, and you can be anyone you want. So play along with whatever fantasy you have, but build up to it naturally.
Key ideas to keep in mind:
- Tell them what you are doing. Describe your surroundings. Where are you? What are you wearing? These are all helpful in getting the conversation going.
- What are you imagining? There is so much room for fantasy. Move beyond what is actually happening and let the fantasy take hold. You can be anyone you want, and they can be anyone you desire.
- How are you feeling? Let them know your physical sensations. What feels good? What are you touching? What are they touching?
If you’ve gone through this and implemented some of these tips we guarantee you will have had a great phone sex experience. If you are interested but unsure that this is for you, we recommend just giving it a try. We offer free trials to new callers, so there is absolutely nothing to lose. Give it a shot, you’ll thank yourself later.
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