Carmel Jones

Carmel Jones is a published sex, dating, and relationship expert who founded The Big Fling in 2015 as her official web presence to promote sex-positivity and combat toxic masculinity. Hailing from Philadelphia, Carmel has written extensively on sex, dating, and romance. She has written for Elite Daily, MindBodyGreen, MeetMindful and has been quoted by Cosmopolitan, SheKnows, Bustle, and more. She can be reached at carmel@thebigfling.com.

Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords is an editor, writer, sex blogger, podcaster, and kinky woman who writes, talks, and overshares about her sex life all over the NSFW side of the internet. She believes everyone who wants to should be able to have the sex, orgasms, and pleasure they enjoy as long as it’s consensual. Kayla lives and loves the BDSM lifestyle and educates new and experienced kinksters online and in-person about how to have safe, healthy, and consensual kinky relationships. To her, sex positivity means finding what works for your sexuality and doing whatever that is in a healthy, safe, and consensual way. Her personal motto is, “Your kink isn’t my kink, but your kink is okay.” That goes for gender identity, sexuality, sexual preferences, and kinks. Do what makes you happy and do it with other legal, consenting adults. She can be reached at kayla@thebigfling.com.