Here Are All of the Free Hookup Sites in 2021:
3. Seeking Arrangement
5. Ashley Madison
9. R4R Subreddits
11. So Naughty
17. Instant Hookups
Most popular hookup site
- Free: Create profile, browse women, like photos/vids, create Hotlist, join blogs/groups
- Premium: $20-40 per month (depending on length of membership) to message, send gifts, use extra features
- Credits: Buy credits and coins to use extra features with no premium membership
Full Review: Adult FriendFinder is a stalwart in the world of adult hookup websites and has been around for decades, becoming one of the most popular and most-recognized sites in the industry. The site will enable you to connect with like-minded adults with features such as adult cam shows, chat rooms and an instant messenger app.
There are literally thousands of members here so you will not struggle to strike up a conversation (at the very least)! As such, this site has premium paid-membership that does not allow you to enjoy any of its features until you pay up.
The biggest and most obvious drawback of this site, aside from the cost, is the abundant use of fake ‘chat bots’. Prepare to be inundated with messages from supposed real members who seem keen to communicate or meet up almost as soon as you sign in for the first time – creepy or coincidental? We think creepy! Avoid this common marketing technique by turning the other cheek, and it won’t be long before you find some genuine and sexy people to talk to!Read Less
- Free: Match, message, and view profiles (pretty much everything you'll need for a hookup)
- Plus: 5 super-likes per day, rewind last swipe, no ads
- Gold: $30 for 1 month or $12/month for a year, see who's swiped right on you, curated matches, all the Plus features
Full Review: If you haven’t heard of this app, we’d love to know which rock you’re living under. Tinder’s iconic ‘swipe’ matching feature revolutionized the match dating world and has been copied by a multitude of websites/apps ever since. The concept is simple yet genius – swipe right if you like someone and swipe left when you don’t. You won’t know if someone has swiped right on you until you swipe right on them, and vice versa. Once there is a match, you can start a conversation in a private one-to-one chat window. You can do this with all the matches as they flood in!
The only way you (as a free member) can let someone know you like them, before they swipe right/left on you, is to ‘super-like’ them. Free members get one super-like per day, which lets another member know you’re interested before they’ve even seen your profile.
Tinder is completely free but there is a limit on the number of times you can swipe right in a 24-hour period. You can swipe left as much as you like, but you can only ‘like’ a certain number of members per day.
Tinder is as much among the great dating apps as it is a casual sex app. Register for Tinder with your email address or your Facebook login. Searching for matches is just as simple: just set the age range you are looking for and a limit on the distance from your location. For example, you may want to look for people within a 10-mile radius of your location, etc.Read Less
Best for sugar daddies
- Free: Browse and exchange messages
- Premium: Approx $20-45 per month (depending on length of membership) to get a more visible profile, more search filters, no ads, and read receipts
Full Review: Have a lot of money? Old? Want to hook up with a model? If you answered yes to any of these questions, join Seeking Arrangements.
It’s the number one sugar-baby site, and it’s set up like a shopping website for sugar-babies. When you sign up for Seeking Arrangements, you’ll be asked questions about your annual income (which females on this site take very seriously). You’ll also be asked to provide a photo of yourself. Many men choose to not show their faces on this site, making it very discreet. However, ladies are more likely to click on your profile if you do have a photo of your face. You can set up private albums for this purpose.
The girls are beautiful (truly stunning), very sexual, and you can click the photo to expand a woman’s profile. The profiles on this particular site are pretty detailed and you’ll be able to find out quickly if your matches are looking for casual flings, relationships, or human banks. Females at The Big Fling who use this site say they look for the following when checking out men’s profiles: net worth (verified by SA), friendly/safe bio, and nice photos. Your inbox will be flooded in no-time, even if your’e unattractive. You’ll find a lot of escorts, but that’s sort of the name of the game at Seeking Arrangement. It’s an arrangement site after all people!
Plan to either spend money both on the site and in cash to your baby. Lots of ongoing NSA relationships are born on Seeking Arrangements.Read Less
Most social media-y
- Free: Create profile, upload pics, send friend requests
- Premium: $29.95 for 1 month or $44.85 for 3 months to exchange unlimited messages + no ads
First Thoughts: Fuckbook is a social media site, like Facebook, but for fucking! Send sexy messages, post x-rated content, watch cam shows, and more. Finding a fuck buddy isn't challenging, but you'll need a premium account.
First Thoughts: Fuckbook is a social media site, like Facebook, but for fucking! Send sexy messages, post x-rated content, watch cam shows, and more. Finding a fuck buddy isn't challenging, but you'll need a premium account.Read more
Full Review: It is obvious where the Fuckbook brand’s influences lie, before you even visit the site and see the familiar site design for yourself. This tongue-in-chee site follows a similar layout and structure to the more infamous Facebook, but with a whole different approach that makes it way more exciting.
Here you can meet and hookup with sexy singles, swingers and simple lovers of XXX shareable content! Couples can enjoy this site just as much as singles, so no one is left out. This also means there’s almost everything and anything for everyone and anyone here – no matter your kink.
Fuckbook lets you access live cams or connect with other members in the hope of finding a sexual encounter. Share pictures, videos and status updates on the main home page wall – just like you do on everyone’s favorite household non-XXX social media site. You can even talk directly with horny members in your local area. Truthfully, this is one of the most fun hookup sites around! But, you’re more likely to casually flirt and browse profiles rather than actually have sex.Read Less
Best for affairs
- Free: View profiles and match
- Credits: Introductory Package (100 credits @ $49), Elite (500 credits @ $149), Affair Guarantee (1,000 credits @ $249). Credits are used to contact someone (5), for length of time spent instant messaging (60 for 60 minutes), or to give gifts.
Full Review: Who doesn’t love a good affair? Ashley Madison is the notorious site for people looking to cheat on their significant others. Married females dominate the site, but there are a lot of men too, which means there’s a lot of competition. But don’t worry, there’s plenty to go around. Most encounters on Ashley Madison lead to fucking. You’ll have to pay for credits to find out all there is to enjoy at Ashley Madison, but trust us… it’s worth it.
Ashley Madison has gotten a bad rep for connecting people willing to cheat on their significant others, but at The Big Fling, we don’t judge. That poor reputation only fell upon Ashley Madison because it worked. They were put under fire for using bots as well, but since being outed for their use of bots, they’ve gotten a lot better and now almost all profiles are real.
Due to the premise of the site, everyone is there for a fun, discreet, steamy encounter that is probably followed by lots of sexting. Whether you are seeking a one night stand, a new dating partner, or a fuck buddy, your new cheating friends are always down for a good time.Read Less
Best for ongoing hookups
Full Review: Hinge is a millennial relationship/dating app, but it works for NSA relationships too, like Tinder. These apps are great because they are safe, there are zero bots, and meetups happen quickly. Hinge, like many similar apps, uses a swiping method for matching singles. A major con is that many Hinge members are looking for a relationship. However, you can always be sure that you are talking to a genuine person, which is unique from sites.
Hinge, as mentioned, is less a sexual fuck site and more a dating app; however, the ladies on this app are sometimes looking for a quick bang. It likely fosters more dating relationships due to the intense nature of the profile set up. There are quirky questions that help other users get to know you along with ways to specify your religious, educational, and personal background. In our opinion, these are all things that are important for a long-term relationship rather than a one night stand. More than that, there is no X-rated content shared on Hinge. That being said, the chicks on Hinge are often more attractive, more fun, and smarter than girls on sites like Adult Friend Finder.Read Less
Quickest date setups
- Free: View profiles, match, message matches, use the on-demand dating function
- Premium: Approx $20-30 per month (depending on length of membership) to message people you don't match with yet, advanced search/filtering
Full Review: Clover is available on both iOS and Android devices, but unfortunately it does not have a website-based service. This app is meant to provide a more tailored approach to dating rather than what little is offered platforms like Tinder, with a very similar concept and approach.
You can like or dislike member profiles with the familiar swipe left and right functionality, but you can also join live mixers and discover local events with in-app meetups. You can also set up real dates with people rather than limit yourself to boring and aimless conversations in private messages. It makes finding a hookup as easy as ordering a take-out! This cuts out all the nonsense and gets straight to the point – do you want to go on a date or not?
The concept is good, and the design is almost flawless, with quick functionality and ease-of-use. But the service has had mixed reviews from users on both iOS and Android platforms. Also, it definitely leans towards dating more than casually hooking up, but the chicks are often down to get physical!Read Less
Best for fetishes
- Free: Do everything except watch videos
- Premium: $5 per month to also watch videos
Full Review: FetLife is a place where you can explore your sexy fetishes. It’s heavy into the dom/sub aspect of fetishes, but pretty much caters to everything. If you’ve got a weird kink, someone on FetLife is ready to fulfill your crazy fantasy. Most people on the site are very sexy, and very real. It’s a popular place for everyday chicks who are looking to explore their kinky side. As many everyday people come to the site, there are even more professional fetish ladies to hookup with. These are chicks who genuinely love to get kinky and weird. Rarely are they looking for compensation, but some are looking to get paid for fetish services, so watch out for that.
While the site is open-minded, it doesn’t promote or endorse any form of non-consensual sex fantasies. FetLife works slowly in comparison to other platforms because it’s a bit more about creating a community that is safe for people looking to explore their fetishes or even acknowledge their fantasies that have been snubbed by society, but it does work.
You can find someone who turns you on in all the right ways based on location or kink, sort of like a Sex Yellow Pages!Read Less
Best for nerdy millennials
Full Review: Reddit is a popular internet platform used for social discussion. It’s comprised of many forums which anyone can join in on, you just need to sign up for a free account! It’s so popular that there’s a Reddit feed for pretty much everything – including sexual encounters for singles and swingers. So, although Reddit isn’t a sex site per se, there is a way to find ladies on Reddit: head to the R4R section (or Redditor for Redditor) and type in your location. You’ll be directed to a feed full of people seeking others in their areas for various reasons. You can browse through people and message them or post for yourself and wait for the messages to flood in. Tons of people are looking for naughty flings and those who are typically make their ads pretty clear.
Reddit users are similar to Craigslist users. They know what they are looking for. Be wary of catfishes, dangerous people, and prostitutes.
It’s totally free to sign up, but you can pay for a membership which essentially serves as money you can use to gift things to other Reddit users!Read Less
- Free: Create profile and browse
- Premium: $25-30 per month (depending on length of membership) to message, view/exchange private photos, use the live video feature, read stories, play games, view cam shows, etc.
Full Review: Xpress is a little bit different to most other dating sites, because it’s a site that allows you to see who has been checking you out! You can see who has added you as a friend, who would like to meet up and even those who just peeked at your profile. Take your pick! Because that is what this site is all about – casual flings.
The search function is extensive and unique too – you can even search for members by stating your sexual orientation, selecting your preferred sexual positions, or fantasies. Pair your profile with others who are looking for similar experiences. This way you can find exactly what you are looking for. Whether it’s an affair, a one-night stand or a meaningful relationship you’re after – there’s a good chance you will find your partner here. If only they had put so much attention to detail in the initial homepage design before you register – because that is seriously clunky and hard to navigate!Read Less
Coolest search function
- Trial: Free to try it out for a day
- Membership: $49.95 per month to fully browse, message, watch videos, enjoy the extras.
Full Review: So Naughty is billed as the best place on the web to meet local singles. That is quite a large boast to make and reputation to live up to! As the name would indicate, it steamier than regular dating sites. Immediately the site attempts to draw you in with promises of kinky grandeur, with messages like ‘we found 750 members within 10km of your location!’ Apparently, ‘the women you have been dreaming of’ are all here waiting for you too! It would be rude not to give this a shot and see if it lives up to the billing.
In fairness, the site does offer quite a lot to do, not just in terms of hooking up or meeting matches. There is a video and live cam directory, an erotic story section, a games section, an advice page and even some quizzes! However, a lot of these are directory pages that lead on to other websites, which is a shame as it distracts the user away from the casual sex and genuine matching aspect of this site.
Getting started answering 6 questions, one after each other. The usual questions are asked, like what you are looking for and the age range you wish to see etc. What’s interesting is that you can choose what type of woman you want to get naughty with – ranging from college students to married housewives and even grannies!Read Less
- Free: Create profile, browse members, add to Hotlist, participate in forums, write/publish blog posts
- Premium: $15-30 per month (depending on length of membership) to message, view/exchange private photos, watch webcams, post testimonials to someone's profile, receive more potential matches, and live cam chat
- Tokens: Purchase tokens or points to experience extra features without having a membership (or to add more to an existing membership)
Full Review: Looking something clean-cut that doesn’t over complicate things with unnecessary bells and whistles? Look no further than GetItOn! Clean, uncluttered, pleasant to navigate and enjoyable – everything you want from a hookup site.
Registration is as simple as the site’s layout – just click ‘register for free’ and fill out the registration form. Simple yet effective! Registering is free but you are not entitled to use the site’s full features and services until you upgrade to a premium membership.
There are a number of clear warnings on the site that ‘persons appearing in photographs may not be actual members’ so make sure to pay due diligence when enjoying the GetItOn service. As with any other “DTF” site, always make sure you are talking to who you think you are talking to, or who you are being told you are talking to.Read Less
Best for masturbatory material
- Free: Create profile, browse members
- Premium: $20 per month to exchange unlimited messages, share+view photos and videos, explore extras such as erotic stories
Full Review: Xmatch is for a man’s man – and this much is obvious by looking at the front page of their website. Half-naked gorgeous females in provocative poses lets you know exactly what’s going down here before you even begin – this hookup site is all about finding a hot partner to have filthy fun with! Are the pictures you see at first of real members? Probably not. But they are enough to whet our appetite and for us to dive in and have a look around.
There are apparently over 8 million active members here at Xmatch, all of which were presented with the same two options when visiting for the first time – join for free or search for a match. This is not really a real choice though, as they both lead to the exact same page and the same simple registration process.
What is required at registration? Just your email address, a username and some short bio information. Click the activation link in the email they send you and away you go!
Best for fantasies
- Standard/Free: Can watch webcams, can message with premium members who have purchased standard contacts
- Premium: $20 per month for unlimited messaging, commenting ability, search by kink, full access to profiles/hot lists/webcams/chat rooms/etc.
Full Review: Passion is one of the most popular websites on this list, and it is not difficult to see why. If passion is what you are looking for then, passion is what you will get at Passion! It doesn’t matter if you are a man, woman, TS/TV/TV or couple – everyone is welcome over at Passion (regardless of sexual orientation). And lots of people love to come here too!
In fact, over 300 new hot and steamy photographs are uploaded to this site every single day here, with over 250’000 on it already. Thousands of members enjoy sharing risky images. So, you will be kept entertained to say the least!
To get going, just give them your email address, a username and a password. You can log other details such as your body type, race, sexual orientation and marital status. Yes, that’s right – married people are welcome! You can also include an introductory title and some bio information if you’d like.Read Less
Fastest loading site
Full Review: It’s taken us too long to get around to Jim Wade’s InstaFuckFriend. It’s a fast loading and clean, which is a refreshing change of pace from other dating sites in this space. The signup funnel doesn’t take long to get through and it works well on mobile. It isn’t dominated by image carousels, instead using cool photography sparingly to get the point across.
On that final point, the only point that matters, IFF delivers. The people here are the real deal. No fake profiles. And if there are BS profiles, you can report it to their friendly and responsive customer service. They reply within one day.
The best part of IFF is the speed in two respects – site speed and funnel completion speed. The site loads quickly on all devices. A must for user experience. More broadly, completing the funnel is frictionless. It takes no time to go from landing on the site to talking to someone nearby who’s DTF. An added bonus is it gets you in the mood.
A con? The site sometimes redirects you to other fuck sites, which really distracts from using InstaFuckFriend.Read Less
Best for speed
Full Review: We all remember and loved Craigslist Personals, but it seemed to encourage prostitution and has been removed. RIP. Not many online sex services match it, but you can still find hookups quickly on Craigslist in other ways.
For one, you can post a discreet request in ‘Domestic Gigs,’ mention that you won’t be paying any girl money, and see who responds to you. Second, you can check out the Activities section and sift through some of the discreet (but also obvious) fuck ads. Look for words like ‘massage’ or ‘adult’ in the Activities section. Those key words are almost always a sexual subliminal message.
Craigslist is great because there are literally no bots, period. What kind of bot would make a personal ad and why? Also, sometimes the ads are paid for. That investment put into an ad pretty much guarantees a response. On apps and other sites, you never know if people are online because they want to actually chill, or online because they are bored and have nothing better to do.
Of course, there are some drawbacks. For one, Craigslist isn’t like other dating sites as it’s not really meant for sex. Also, it has a dangerous reputation, so be careful when making friends and meeting up. Also, lots of the girls looking for sex are also looking for money. Keep your guard up and don’t get suckered into paying for sex. And always ask to see a few pics before agreeing to meet. You don’t want to find yourself having sex with an ugly partner just because you didn’t ask!Read Less
Most to-the-point members
- Trial: Free to try it out for a day
- Membership: $49.95 per month to fully browse, message, watch videos, enjoy the extras.
Full Review: Instant Hookups is a place where you go to find – well – the clue is in the name really! The name cuts straight to the chase and so do most of the members here. With an advanced GPS-based Auto-Match system, the service promises to connect members faster than anyone other service online. A huge statement to make! One that is made on a homepage that looks as though 4 different homepages have been mashed together.
So, all in all, not a good first impression. Once you go through the 6-step registration process though, the interface becomes a lot cleaner and your experience becomes a lot more enjoyable. Only if you are willing to pay for a full membership, of course. Registration is free, but in truth a free membership doesn’t enable you to do much on site.Read Less
- Trial: $1.95 to try it out for a day
- Membership: Ranges from a week @ $10.99 to a year @54.99
Full Review: Pure is an eccentric hookup website that’s also available on iOS and Android. The first thing you notice about the site/app is that it is designed very differently in comparison to others. At a glance, this almost feels like a fashion site or niche blog. But as you dig deeper into the site you realize there is a lot more on offer than shopping, and with much more excitement.
This isn’t a place for fashion, it’s more a place to take your clothes off and have some fun! The site has some strict rules and a kinky set of instructions too. Members must ask for what they want, they are not permitted to talk about their problems and are instructed to act like strangers after any sexual encounters take place. To put it bluntly – ‘no calls, no texts, no approaching in public’ – kinky!
If you are looking for a relationship or partner, then Pure is probably not for you. You may want to head to one of the many dating sites out there. But if you are yearning for an after-dark adventure, go for it! Registration is quick and discreet, just like the experience itself, so your private life stays private. The site is so user friendly, with simple navigation, clear screens and large text fields – so you won’t get lost easily.Read Less
Sexiest swipe app
- Free: Create profile, browse
- Premium: $49.99 per month to browse, message, view/exchange private photos, use the live video feature
Full Review: This service aims to make sparks fly based on physical attraction. The members on site enjoy the single life, ranging from people who aren’t looking for anything serious to those who are in between partners and relationships. This is for people who are looking for no strings attached fun and a connection without the pressure of a relationship. It’s not your average online dating platform.
Users can take advantage of custom profiling, which takes just a minute or two to set up – putting you in front of hundreds of people almost instantly. Search for other people in your area, begin chatting with them and check for your replies on an instant messenger. The iHookup app is available on both iPhone and Android devices and finding a partner to play with is as simple as swiping and tapping on your phone.
Want to keep some of your more intimate photos private? Perhaps you want to keep those extra special snaps for a certain someone’s eyes only. Not a problem! You can keep your profile quiet because the platform offers privacy settings. Place your naughty little pics under lock and key with private albums, restricting access only to those who deserve to see your kinky side! With this app, you are in total control.Read Less