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Passion implies heat, and that’s exactly what you’ll find at No matter who or what gets you hot, you can find plenty of local and not-so-local singles hanging out, getting to know each other, sharing nude photos, or chatting on live cam, and eventually hooking up at

With nearly 83,000,000 active members at, the site definitely knows how to attract a crowd. Login for a few minutes and you’ll see why. Everyone’s there for a good, sexy time and looking for fun and action.

From nude photos to uploaded videos, having sex with their partner or masturbating for other members, it’s all about the sex, lust, and passion that hot singles and couples generate together. is a dating site, a hookup site, a community, and a cam site all in one.

Meet singles in your area, get to know people from across the country, and get off alone or with someone special in whatever way works best for you. makes it easy, sexy, and fun.


Start the fun with a free trial to Take advantage of any full access offers they provide so you can get in and enjoy all those naked bodies as soon as possible. Answer a few questions, validate your email, and you’re good to go:

  • I am/We are: man, woman, couple (m/f, m/m, f/f), TS/TV/TG (transsexual, transvestite, transgender)
  • Looking for: man, woman, couple (m/f, m/m, f/f), TS/TV/TG
  • Enter your date of birth, country, and zip code.
  • Enter your email, a user name, and a password

The free trial only lasts so long. Once it’s over, if you don’t upgrade, you’ll become a Standard Member.

Standard Membership

While you can do several things as a free member, it’s not everything.

  • Join blogs and groups
  • Chat on Instant Messenger and in chat rooms
  • Upload photos and videos
  • View, like, and comment on contest photos
  • Use Basic Search with the standard form or search by username
  • Receive tech support by email within two days
  • Add up to 200 members to your Hotlist
  • Watch live member webcams one video at a time

Gold Membership

To get full access to everything, you’ll want to upgrade to Gold Membership. You get everything that a Standard Member receives plus much more.

  • Receive tech support by email within 12 hours
  • Receive priority customer service by phone
  • Add up to 1000 members to your Hotlist
  • Send flirts
  • Send friend requests
  • View favorite photos and videos
  • Watch unlimited live member webcams
  • Comment on photos and videos
  • View full-length videos
  • View full-size photos
  • Initiate, read, and reply to messages
  • View complete profiles of other members
  • Use Advanced Search to narrow down potential matches

Upgrading to Gold Membership

Gold Membership can be purchased a month at a time or as part of a longer subscription package. Membership prices are more affordable than other dating sites similar to

  • Month-to-month: $23.95 per month
  • Two months: $22.95 per month – you pay $45.90 upfront
  • Three months: $21.95 per month – you pay $65.85 upfront
  • Four months: $19.96 per month – you pay $79.84 upfront
  • Five months: $18.95 per month – you pay $94.75 upfront
  • Six months: $17.95 per month – you pay $107.70 upfront

Standard Contacts

To make sure you’re connecting with as many matches as possible, you can choose to add Standard Contacts to your Gold Membership. This allows free members to see your profile and contact you by email. You may be paying for someone else to gain access, but you’re also helping to make sure you connect with as many matches as possible.

  • Month-to-month: $19.95 per month
  • Three months: $11.97 per month – you pay $35.90 upfront
  • 12 months: $8.95 per month – you pay $107.40 upfront

Profile Highlights

To stand out in a crowd and make sure your profile gets noticed, you can purchase Profile Highlights. Your listing will be highlighted in search and your emails will be highlighted when you contact someone. The whole point is to get noticed so you can hook up, date, or whatever it is you want to do.

  • Month-to-month: $9.95 per month
  • Three months: $8.95 per month – you pay $26.85 upfront


At first glance, is a dating site that makes matches for you based on your preference while also being a cam site where you can watch sexy people and enjoy yourself at home. But it’s also a community for the sexually adventurous as well as a great way to connect with people across the world. You just have to know how to use it.

Top Fans Program

The Top Fans Program is a social game that lets you get noticed by someone you think is hot and sexy. Once you add a member to your Hotlist, you can start spending points to become their Top Fan. When you do, you’ll show up in their profile, their Top Fan list, and notifications with a special badge and highlight. You’re showing your appreciation for them and getting their attention at the same time.

Live Model Chat

The non-nude chat is always free to join and can be plenty of fun. But if you’re craving something sexier, join the nude chat. You’ll need tokens for nude chat which lets you do several things: direct models in Private and Tipping shows, control Buzzmode and Connexion toys, and watch hot adult stars.

100 tokens for $12.00

185 tokens for $20.00

500 tokens for $50.00

1100 tokens for $100.00

Winks and Flirts

Want to let someone know you think they’re hot, but feeling a little shy? Send them a wink as a way to flirt. You can only do this during your free trial or when you’re a Gold Member. They’ll know you’re like them but you won’t have the pressure of a conversation…yet.

Private Chat Room

Public and group chat rooms are available for anyone to use. But what if you want to control who comes in the room and the conversation you have? Host your own Private Chat Room. You can assign a password or not, but people can only join if you invite them in.

  • Month-to-month: $9.95 per month
  • Three months: $6.95 per month – you pay $20.85 upfront
  • Six months: $5.95 per month – you pay $35.70 upfront


When you login to, you’ll see members with a “Confirmed” badge. This means they’ve proven they’re a real person. It helps build trust before you start talking. You can get confirmed for free through ConfirmID, a third-party verification service that uses non-identifying features like age, gender, and body type to verify your identity.


The currency of (besides actual money) is the point system. You earn points by actively using Then you spend those points to do special things like send flowers with your emails, upgrade your membership for a month, or buy sex toys. If you’d rather skip the effort and buy your points, you can do that, too.

  • 200 points for $3.00
  • 500 points for $6.00
  • 1000 points for $10.00

Take Tests

Want to let matches know more about you? Take the Personality Love Test or the Purity Test. The Personality Love Test can help match you with people who share some of your personality traits. The Purity Test tells everyone how naughty or innocent you are at

Blogs, Groups, and the Community

Showing off a nude selfie can be fun and flirting with hotties even more fun, but sometimes you want to express yourself or talk to people who think like you. The community with its blogs, groups, and other features is a great place to be. Write something sexy or something meaningful and chat with people who are curious about the same things you are. You never know what kind of matches and connections you’ll make when you do.


For all that there are almost too many features to keep straight and the member homepage is a bit chaotic, getting around isn’t too difficult once you know where to find everything.

Member Homepage

Your recent interactions are on the left, when viewing on a web browser. The middle of the screen is where all the action is. See who’s online and check your new matches. Check out how many members are broadcasting on cam. Scroll through Member Activity to see who’s posting what. Scroll down and look to the right to find the latest erotic stories, contest results, blog posts, and more.

My Stuff

Here’s where you’ll find, you guessed it, your stuff.

  • My Profile
  • Add photos and videos
  • Friends and requests
  • Top Fans
  • Hotlist
  • Flirts
  • And more


The search options you can access will depend on your membership level. Standard members will not be able to see every available search option.

  • Who’s Online
  • New Matches
  • Members Near Me
  • VIP Members
  • Hot or Not
  • Advanced Search
  • Kink Search
  • Browse
  • Username Search

Live Action

This is where you can access the different types of cam shows with models and members.

  • Live Member Webcams
  • Top Broadcasters
  • Adult Chat Rooms
  • Instant Messenger


Want to connect with a larger community? This is your space.

  • Blogs
  • Groups
  • Magazine
  • Bling
  • Sex Academy
  • Contests
  • Erotic Stories

What’s Hot

If you like to check out the best, hottest, sexiest, and most well liked stuff and people, this is the place to do it.

  • Hottest Photos
  • Hottest Videos
  • Hottest Albums
  • Hottest Members
  • Top Members
  • Adult Movies

Payments and Refunds

Payments to can be made by debit or credit card, check or money order by mail, or by mailing and faxing (people still fax?!) your credit card information. Your bank or credit card statement will show up as*FRIENDF. Payments can be set to auto-renew at the end of the subscription. Auto-renewals are charged the non-subscription price. You can turn of auto-renew in your account settings to avoid this.

Refunds are rarely available through and only if the site makes a mistake. If you cancel your membership before the end of your current subscription, you will not receive a refund or a prorated amount for any unused days remaining.

Tech Issues

Customer service is available by email for all members and by phone for Gold members. How long you wait for an answer depends on your membership level. offers an extensive Help page designed to answer most of your questions.

You can download an iPhone app to access from your iPhone. All other mobile devices can use a mobile-friendly version of the website. WebTV is no longer available for


While nearly anything goes at, not everything is okay. If you are subjected to abuse, harassment, threats of violence, and other bad acts, report the member to the Abuse Team.