All of the Free Gay Hookup Sites

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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Premium
  • Free: Upload videos, see members who have viewed you, broadcast, watch/join nude chats
  • Premium: Approx $15-35 per month (depending on length of membership) to view profiles, message people, add friends, send tips

MenNation

First Thoughts: A trusted and popular gay chat + hookup site that has been around forever. Read more
Pros
  • Smooth interface
  • Trusted and widely used
  • Affordable
  • Indulge kinks by sharing private videos with matches
Cons
  • Lots of competition
  • Large number of profiles can be overwhelming
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Use Credits
  • Free: View profiles and match
  • Credits: Introductory Package (100 credits @ $49), Elite (500 credits @ $149), Affair Guarantee (1,000 credits @ $249). Credits are used to contact someone (5), for length of time spent instant messaging (60 for 60 minutes), or to give gifts.

Ashley Madison

First Thoughts: Ashley Madison is a modern site built to help cheating men have affairs. Are you married, or interested in being the other man? Read more
Pros
  • Discreet
  • Sexy men looking to bang
  • Great if you want to have an affair
  • Lots of 'straight' men looking for gay flings
Cons
  • Expensive
  • Caters to the 'affair' niche
  • Rumored use of bots
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Premium
  • Free: View profiles, match, and message matches
  • Premium: Approx $10-15 per month (depending on length of membership) to browse anonymously, use unlimited search filters, avoid ads, enjoy unlimited private album sharing

Scruff

First Thoughts: Scruff is a newer site with tons of users already. Whether you're looking for a burly top or a twinky bottom to hookup with, Scruff has the guy for you. Read more
Pros
  • You can do quite a bit for free
  • Tons of users online at all times
  • Sexy men
  • Diverse member base
Cons
  • Auto-renews membership
  • Title is misleading (there are twinks too)
  • Some guys want a platonic relationship
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Best for tech-loving millennial gays

Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Taimi XL
  • Free: View profiles, match, and message matches
  • Taimi XL: Flat fee of $14.99 for a week, or $49.99 for 1 month to enjoy the app ad-free, send messages before matching, advanced searching, use the app in stealth mode, and undo swipes

Taimi

First Thoughts: Taimi is one of the newest gay dating apps. It's super modern, user-friendly, and caters to gay singles along with all other sexualities. Read more
Pros
  • Tons of guys online at all times
  • User-friendly
  • Clean interface
  • Not shady about pricing like other apps
  • Men are hunky and ready for sex
Cons
  • Minors have been found using the app
  • Competitive for men
  • Not a ton of extra features
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Gold
  • Free: Create profile, limited viewing of other profiles
  • Gold: Approx $7-30 per month (depending on length of membership) to fully view other profiles and communicate with members

Out Personals

First Thoughts: Out Personals is one of the largest gay dating sites with a lot of fun extras like video chatting and interest groups. Read more
Pros
  • Tons of naughty pics
  • User-friendly
  • Lots of users overall
Cons
  • Some areas don’t have a lot of active members, despite large user base
  • Can’t enjoy for free
  • Setting a time to meet and actually hook up can take lots of time/effort
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free, Silver, or Gold
  • Free: Create a profile, receive emails (but not send), and send ‘meet-in-person’ invites
  • Silver: $1.95 for a 3-day trial or $30 per month to send 25 emails per day, used the advanced search feature, create hot lists, and get priority placement
  • Gold: Approx $12-35 per month (depending on length of membership) to send 100 emails per day with or without attachments, access to the Gold Room where you can watch porn and cam shows

ManPlay

First Thoughts: A great gay hookup site with a diverse bunch of guys ranging from bears to twinks. Read more
Pros
  • Great for finding a quick hookup
  • Detailed profiles
  • Specifically used for finding fuck buddys
  • Tons of members
  • User-friendly + advanced search function
Cons
  • Can’t fully enjoy for free
  • Competitive for men
  • Rumored use of bots
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Premium
  • Free: View profiles, match, and message matches
  • Premium: Approx $5-10 per month (depending on length of membership) to check out who has been watching your profile, use the advanced search function, enjoy the app ad-free

Hornet

First Thoughts: Hornet is a discreet gay social platform that encourages and helps singles hookup. Read more
Pros
  • Tons of users
  • Sexy men
  • Can enjoy for free
  • Users can share health status to protect against STDs like HIV
Cons
  • Bad customer service
  • Competitive for guys
  • Pressure to share health status
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Xtra Lite, and Xtra
  • Free: View profiles, match, message matches, use the on-demand dating function
  • Xtra Lite: Approx $10 per month to enjoy the app ad-free and view up to 300 profiles
  • Xtra: Approx $4-7 per month (depending on length of membership) to enjoy the app ad-free, view up to 600 profiles, advanced searches, save/send chat phrases, read reciepts and personalized notifications

Grindr

First Thoughts: One of the most popular gay hookup apps filled with every kind of gay imaginable. Read more
Pros
  • Extremely popular
  • Affordable
  • Sexy members
  • User-friendly app
  • Can find hookups, friends, couples, and so much more
Cons
  • Competitive for men
  • Prepare for the unwarranted dick pics
  • App tends to glitch at times
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or VIP
  • Free: View profiles, match, message matches, send winks, and join chat rooms. Browsing is limited
  • VIP: Approx $4-8 per month (depending on length of membership) to see who viewed your profile, use private photo album, remove ads, browse unlimited profiles, browse in incognito mode

Gaydar

First Thoughts: Gaydar is one of the most rapidly growing gay dating apps with an awesome free trial. Membership is also ultra-affordable. Read more
Pros
  • Smooth interface
  • Diverse sexy guys
  • Can enjoy for free
Cons
  • Not a lot of extra features
  • Tons of ads
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free and Premium
  • Free: View profiles, match, message matches, 24/7 access to live chat, advanced search options, gain access to the forum
  • Premium: Approx $5-10 per month (depending on length of membership) to create your own forum, access adult content, enjoy the app ad-fee, priority placement and matching, browse users in stealth mode

Gays

First Thoughts: Gays.com is a place for gays to find both community and hookups. Chat with men in your area or link with gays across the globe. Read more
Pros
  • Great for hookups
  • Cool extra features
  • Quick sign up process
  • Clean interface
Cons
  • Not a lot of people know about it
  • Not exclusively a hookup site
  • There aren’t tons of guys on the line during non-peak hours
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free, Silver, or Gold
  • Free: View profiles, show interest in matches (but no messaging) and add members to your favorites list
  • Silver: Approx $8-22 per month (depending on length of membership) to contact matches, view members’ videos, and partially access blogs/groups/magazine
  • Gold: Approx $8-35 per month (depending on length of membership) to contact matches, get top priority placement on the search list, get full access to all the app’s extra features, access to social media profiles of members in your network

Gay FriendFinder

First Thoughts: A trusted gay hookup site with awesome customer service and even better results. Read more
Pros
  • Profiles are verified, so there are no bots
  • Flirty
  • Good customer service
Cons
  • Some guys want to be platonic
  • You’ll need to spend money to enjoy
  • Search function isn’t advanced
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or VIP
  • Free: View profiles, match, message matches up to 40 messages
  • VIP: Approx $10-25 per month (depending on length of membership) to have unlimited matches and connect with matches for up to 200 messages. Option to pay more for ProAd (advertise your services to make money on the app)

Adam4Adam

First Thoughts: A hookup site similar to Grindr with a more in-depth search feature than most hookup apps or dating websites. Read more
Pros
  • User-friendly
  • Awesome advanced search feature
  • Lots to do for free
  • Great for finding a fuck buddy
Cons
  • Rumored use of bots
  • Glitchy interface at times
  • Shady policies
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free, Gold, or Platinum
  • Free: View profiles, match, and show interest in matches without messaging
  • Gold: Approx $8-25 per month (depending on length of membership) to message people
  • Platinum: Approx $10-30 per month (depending on length of membership) to communicate with members and use the advanced search feature

Gay Cupid

First Thoughts: A reputable gay hookup and dating site with a super long free trial. Great for deep personal connections and hookups. Read more
Pros
  • Quick sign up process
  • Amazing customer service
  • In-depth connections along with hookups
  • Generous free trial
Cons
  • Limited number of guys online at any given time
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Membership Details
FREE

Bros4Bros

First Thoughts: A totally free gay community site that's good for friendships and hookups. Read more
Pros
  • Free
  • In-depth profiles
  • User-friendly
  • Sexy guys
Cons
  • Long sign up process
  • Competitive for men
  • Not strictly for hookups, lots of guys looking for friendship
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Membership Details
MEMBERSHIP TYPE: Free or Use Credits
  • Free: View profiles, match, message matches, send/view private photos, and enjoy private live chats
  • Credits: $.02 per credit. Use credits to post comments on video streams and send virtual gifts

Blued

First Thoughts: Gay dating site with a huge focus on live streams. Read more
Pros
  • Amazing for creeping and flirting with sexy guys
  • View and create live streams
  • Lots of sexy guys
Cons
  • More of a social network than a dating platform
  • You can get banned from the app at the creator’s discretion
  • Not a lot of men online at any given time
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Membership Details
FREE (can also purchase coins to make your profile more prominent or send members gifts)

All Male

First Thoughts: A free hookup site that promotes gifting other users by paying for coins. Read more
Pros
  • Free
  • Very sexy guys
  • Search by interests gives the site a unique feel
Cons
  • Lots of people use the app for friendship
  • Tiny member base
  • No app version

How to Make the Most out of a Gay Hookup Site:

Tons and tons of gays use hookup sites to find a match, but not everyone finds success on those sites. Often times, it’s not so much because the site is lame. Instead, tons of people don’t set themselves up for dating or hookup success by not putting any thought into it! The online gay dating pool is so large, that not putting any thought into how you navigate it is something that will place you at the bottom of that pool (and not bottom in a good way). Here are some simple things to pay attention to, and ways to make you a shining star in the online gay dating world.

A nice and sexy profile pic

An awesome profile pic is so important to this world. Most excitement and stimulation is first introduced this way, so you need to make sure your profile picture is good. First, you must decide what you want it to say about you. There are some guys who will simply make their profile pics either their dick or their abs, but think about how many dicks and abs you’ve seen in your life. If you watch porn, you’ve probably seen a ton today alone. Belive it or not, people are more intrigued and stimulated by a photo of someone’s face rather than their dick. It just tells a deeper story… if you can believe that. So, our advice is this: pick a photo that shows your face, and then add a bit of spicy sauce. Maybe it’s your face and abs, maybe you’ve got a sexy sinister smirk, or maybe it’s a bathing suite pic that hugs your cock in magical ways. You get the picture.

A detailed profile

Guys get so pumped to start browsing for hookups that they don’t take the time to make their profile detailed, and that’s a mistake. We’re not suggesting that you turn your profile into an epic as long as Antoni Porowski’s dick (humina humina), but long and detailed enough to make you seem exciting, fun, and different. Describe what you are into, what makes you horny, and perhaps a fun fact. Imagine that you’re back at day camp and it’s your turn to introduce yourself… only this time, it’s an adult day camp where the only activity is getting steamy by the virtual campfire.

Gifting

Many of these apps allow for opportunities to send gifts or coins to other members on the site. You may consider this to simply be a way for the app to make money, but who cares. A gift, in any form, is flattering and cool. Imagine how you’d feel if some stranger on the internet sent you a little flirty wink that you know he spent money on. It would turn you on a little, wouldn’t it? So shell out some cash, even if it’s $.99 and show that hunk you think he’s sexy with a gift.

Starting off the conversation right

Do not, and I repeat, do not copy and paste a one-line opener into all your match conversations. Start the conversation off right! It can still be sexy and silly, but make sure it’s specific to the person you’re trying to connect with by viewing his profile or checking out his photos. Commenting on something specific about your match will make it far more likely that you’ll receive a response. People like to know that others are actually paying attention to them. More than that, it opens the door for a deeper conversation and a stronger online connection that is sure to turn into something more.

Sexting

Learn how to sext. It’s not just about dick pic exchanges and telling some guy that you wish he would put his mouth on your dick. It’s about turning the other person on, establishing hot intimacy online (not easy), and creating a genuine sexual connection. Visit your match’s profile and use his photos to explain what you’d like to do to him or what you’d like him to do to you. Don’t get right to the fucking either, sexting requires some foreplay just as much as an in-person bang does!