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Sex dolls get a bad rap as something only desperately, lonely guys play with because they can’t find a partner, and that simply isn’t true. Like every other sex toy on the market, sex dolls are a tool to enhance sexual pleasure, and for lots of people, they’re fun to use. Sex dolls are another way to get yourself off, play with something interesting, and explore your sexual interests and kinks in a safe way.
Inflatable sex dolls may be used as an easy punchline in pop culture, but they’ve come a long way since the early days of plastic boobs and fake mouths. Sure, you can still buy the blowup doll, but you can also buy realistic sex dolls made of silicone. To take it a step farther, today’s sex robots are simply a technologically advanced version of a sex doll. The interest they garner in the media proves that there’s an interest in and curiosity for sex dolls.
If you’ve been thinking about getting a sex doll but are unsure of where to start or how to choose the right one for you, check out our sex doll guide. You’re not alone in your interest in sex dolls, and you don’t have to settle for a poorly made toy that doesn’t make you feel good.
Most of us think of the cliche blowup doll as the ultimate sex doll. In fact, that’s only one type of sex doll. All sex dolls have one thing in common — a sexual experience that feels more real. Playing with a sex doll is meant to feel as realistic as possible. Whether your sex doll has a vagina or a penis, it simulates sex in a fuller way than you can with a stroker or a dildo.
Small or mini sex dolls are basically just headless torsos. You may get the chest and the groin or just the groin. Some sex dolls are just a booty positioned for penetration. You might think of these as entry level sex dolls. They’re easier to move around and store, and they’re often more affordable. The downside to these dolls is that they’re a one hit wonder. You can’t move them into different positions or play with any other part.
Blow-up sex dolls remain on the market, although they’re falling in popularity. Part of this is because why use something that doesn’t look realistic when you have other options? But these sex dolls also remain an affordable option for someone who wants a full body sexual experience. If you really enjoy sex dolls, and it’s all you can afford, you do you.
For those with the money to afford it, you can buy life-like, realistic, full size dolls made of silicone. This type of sex doll is a major financial investment but can provide more sexual pleasure than most other styles. You can find these sex dolls with specific features you want: skin color, breast size (big or small), penis size, hair color, and more.
Sex robots can’t be ignored in our conversation about sex dolls. While many are still in development and not quite ready for mass production, developers are doing interesting things with them. Some reported features include remembering previous sexual positions, going limp to indicate boredom or lack of consent, and other artificial intelligent features meant to make your sex doll experience as true to life as possible.
Picking out the right sex doll for you isn’t much different from selecting any other sex toy. You have to figure out what you want and what you can afford. Like every other sex toy, the more you pay, the more features you get and, usually, the better your experience will be. More expensive sex dolls are also meant to last longer.
If you’ve only got a little to spend, it may be better to buy the more minimal style of sex dolls. These are the headless torsos that may include breasts or pectoral muscles or a groin and pelvis area only. You may be limited in what you can afford, but it may be a better use of your cash than the old-fashioned inflatable blow up sex doll.
For those with hardcore cash to drop, a sex doll can cost anywhere from $2000 up to $20,000. Sex robots will be priced higher than a more basic sex doll, and the more you pay, the more features you can expect to receive. If you see yourself using a sex doll long-term, it’s worth the investment to buy even a less expensive version at $2000 or $2500. Take care of it, and it’ll last a long time.
Do you like big breasts or small boobs? Want a blonde or a redhead? Looking for a person of color or someone with paler skin? You have more options than you realize when you’re ready to buy. Think about the way you want to enjoy your sex doll too — anal penetration, vaginal penetration, or simulated oral sex.
Some sex doll makers will customize your sex doll for you — for an extra fee, of course. But if you’re making the financial investment in your sexual pleasure, you might as well get off on what you like the best. When you go this route, your choices can be almost unlimited: nipples, hair, makeup, glasses or not, position, size, color, etc.
Sex dolls may be considered a single person’s toy, but they definitely get used and enjoyed among couples, too. In deciding what sex doll to buy, it’s something you’ll need to think about. Will you play with this doll with your partner or is it strictly for solo play? You might also want to buy a sex doll for you as well as a separate doll for your partner. There’s nothing wrong with that, either, as long as your partner is into it. Then you can each have what you want most, and no one has to worry about sharing.
The most common material used to make sex dolls is TPR/TPE. It’s better than jelly or rubber, but it’s not quite as good as silicone. Over time TPR/TPE can retain odors and it can never be completely sterilized. If you can afford it, choose a silicone sex toy. You’ll be able to thoroughly clean your doll when you need to, and it lasts longer. Silicone toys are more expensive, but they’re usually worth the extra cost.
If you’re going to spend that much money, your sex doll needs to last a long time. A big part of that is to make sure you purchase your sex doll from a reputable shop. But how you take care of your sex doll makes a big difference too.
Soap and water is always the first step in keep your sex doll clean. You might want to put your doll in the tub or shower so that you don’t make a mess. If it turns you on to have a shower scene with your sex doll, go for it.
Cleaning the crevices and orifices (vaginal or anal) of your sex doll take a little extra care. You’re going to need to get in there beyond just a basic wipe down. You can use enema bulbs to force soapy water into the cavity. You can also use a good shower head with plenty of water pressure. Rinse thoroughly, and prop your doll up so the water can drain away easily and efficiently. You don’t want moldy, musty smells on your sex doll because it didn’t dry properly.
Storage may be an issue for a full size doll but it’s not an impossible situation. Your storage options will be based on the type of sex doll you choose.
How you take care of your sex doll long-term depends primarily on what style you choose and how it’s made. But there are some common tips that apply to most sex dolls of almost any size.
We won’t insult your intelligence by telling you to “penetrate your sex doll” or “let your sex doll penetrate you.” That would make us Captain Obvious, right? But if you’re stuck wondering what else you can do, we might have a few ideas.
Indulge in a sexual fantasy. Maybe your sex doll is a stranger you just met, a long-lost lover you thought you’d never see again, or that cute barista you see every morning at the coffee shop.
Try a kink. Want to dominate someone but don’t have a willing partner? Like the idea of flogging, spanking, or tying up a partner? Your sex doll can take it all and more. Plus, it’s often safer to practice physical kinks like this on an inanimate object before you try it on a real person.
Enjoy a specific fetish. Big boobs, small boobs, feet, thick waists, long hair, older partners, younger partners — everything and anything can be a fetish. This is your chance to worship feet, suck nipples, or enjoy the sight of whatever turns you on most.
Have a threesome or orgy. We said it before, and we’ll say it again: sex dolls aren’t just for single people. If you and your partner have threesome and orgy fantasies but haven’t found the right partner to fulfill them, a sex doll can be whatever you want and more.
Role play with your partner. Take your threesome fantasy a step further and add a role play element. Dress your sex doll up to match the scene and act out your mutual sexual fantasies.
Maybe sex dolls don’t get as much attention as vibrators and dildos do, but they’re out there if you know where to look. From inexpensive to high-end luxury models, you’ve got more options than you realize.
All adult retailers offer some version of these smaller sex dolls. Too Timid has the Double D Masturbator and Vibrating Suction Cup Vagina. At Adam & Eve you can get the Ride Me Roxxxy Stroker Kit or the Shag’in Sally Masturbator. Not to be out done, LoveHoney offers the PRO Elite Alana Ribbed Vagina and Ass and the PRO Elite Tiana. These are great starter options if you’re on a limited budget but want something more realistic.
If you’re looking for raging hard-ons instead of a willing vagina, you’re going to love what’s available. Check out the Fuck Me Silly Male Sex Doll at LoveHoney or the Rough Rider from TooTimid and ride your personal cowboy.
While we think they’re not the best option, blowup sex dolls can definitely get the job done. Try Kayden’s Deep Throat Doll from TooTimid, the Miko Realistic Love Doll available at Adam & Eve, or BJ Betty at LoveHoney.
If you’ve got the cash, your options go up dramatically. Here are just a few places and types of sex dolls you can buy and get exactly what you want.
Silicon Wives Luxury Sex Dolls
Lily Realistic Love Doll at Adam & Eve
